Family Moves Daughter to Avoid Bullies

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By Kim Lucey

State lawmakers in the House passed a bill Thursday to stop bullying in schools. It's none too soon for a Franklin County family that took matters into their own hands and moved their daughter.

The Cooper family of Turners Falls is hoping a school change will give their 6th grade daughter a chance for some better grades, but also a chance to attend school without having dealing with the cruelty from other kids.

Destiny Cooper, 6th grade, says: "It's messed up for kids to do this to other kids."

Destiny Cooper likes to do many of the things most 11 year old girls enjoy, play video games, spend time with family, and play with her cat Rascal.

But in school, her mom says learning disabilities made her stick out more than other kids.

Destiny Cooper, 6th grade, says: "Most of the time I would ignore it and walk away, and sometimes I would just talk back at them."

Laura Cooper says four girls targeted Destiny, and bullied her relentlessly.

Laura Cooper, Destiny's Mother, says: "She's going to the doctor because she's sick over it, and she's afraid to go to school because of it. She goes to the teachers and the teachers say go back to class, so something needs to be done."

Teachers at Great Falls Middle School in Turners Falls started mediation with Destiny and her tormentors. But her Mom says that didn't do much to help the problem. And at one session a girl even said she wanted to shoot Destiny.

Laura Cooper, Destiny's Mother, says: "For something as severe as I want to shoot you, this child should have been out of school for quite some time, that is a severe thing."

Laura says the girl got a one day in-school suspension for the incident, and the bullying continued.

Laura Cooper, Destiny's Mother, says: "Destiny came home and said I'm going to kill myself, I'm going to get rid of myself."

After winter break, it was time to make some changes. Destiny has been doing her work at home since, and Monday starts class up the road at Conway Grammar School.

Laura Cooper, Destiny's Mother, says: "It's a good 25 minute drive each way that I'll have to drive her."

Great Falls Middle School's principal says they're ahead of the commonwealth when it comes to legislation on bullying. She says they have a zero tolerance policy on the books, and next week the school commission is set to vote on a policy addressing cyber-bullying.

As for Destiny, right now she's looking forward to starting at her new school.

Destiny Cooper, 6th grade, says: "Meeting new friends, being respected by others."

She'll also have a special teacher to help her out in class. But most of all, she hopes bullying problems like hers will be taken seriously.

Destiny Cooper, 6th grade, says: "Nobody should be going through all this."

State Representatives say the bullying bill passed in the House includes requirements for prevention plans and mandatory reporting procedures. It also applies to every school in Massachusetts, including private schools. The legislation updates the definition of bullying to include cyber-bullying.

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Brandon Farr said on Saturday, Mar 20 at 11:00 PM

I am very close to Destiny and Laura Cooper and have seen how Destiny has been affected by the bulling that has been happening. Laura had done so much to get it to stop and the school was just not willing to help. I even had her call the police to try like a scared stright thing with the girls who were bulling Des. they said they would go and talk to them and never did anything. My little brother Dakota is going threw the same thing at greenfield highs schools 8th grade and once again the teachers are doing nothing about it. THIS HAS GOT TO STOP NOW!

unsigned said on Saturday, Mar 20 at 9:20 PM

for the next school shooting that happens due to bullying. Donate to that shooters legal defense fund. That will make kids think twice about bullying. It would also make paren also not want thier kids to be bullies.

Anonymous said on Saturday, Mar 20 at 1:52 PM

My child was bullied at Great Falls Middle school also. My phone calls were ignored! I was told the principal didnt get my messages! Once I got an advocate School personel was willing to return calls.. it was only when I had mental health professionals involved that I got any results at sll. I felt as though I was viewed as a hysterical mother, I have found this school to be uneilling to deal with this issue. I hope the Coopers story will encourage this school district to finally be proactive in sujpporting the students who are vunerable as this poor little girl--Go get them Coopers!

Anonymous said on Saturday, Mar 20 at 12:13 PM

This school did not go through with any plans for Destiny so people may need to check their facts about Great Falls Middle School. The Cooper family was open to ideas the school had to give, but when the school gave no good options to protect Destiny what were they supposed to do. The school had no comments for reporters...what does that tell you about the education level available that that school.

anonymous said on Saturday, Mar 20 at 11:57 AM

maybe its not one sided as i saw the the news was up at the school. possibly the school had no comment? looked to me hey were talking from two different locations.

one-sided nonsense said on Friday, Mar 19 at 10:46 PM

Here is yet another example of a one-sided story. How about getting a report from someone who actually works in that school? SLANDER.

Anonymous said on Friday, Mar 19 at 8:06 PM

Anonymous, walk in their shoes. It sounds as if "the plan" came a little too late. I would move my daughter too. What a shame that Destiny had to go through this. My daughter too was briefly bullied in middle school and the parents of the children couldn't have cared less. Education truly begins at home.

Anonymous said on Friday, Mar 19 at 12:20 PM

The school did everything they could for this child; the family was unwilling to give the plan a chance. This is one side of the story -- an unfair portrayal of Great Falls Middle School. Another example of the sensationalized news reporting.

Seann Cooper said on Thursday, Mar 18 at 10:26 PM

Destiny has gone through a lot. Ive seen her come home day after day until my mother kept her home and every single day when i picked her up, the second she got in my car she woudld start to cry. Not something that anyone should have to go through just as Destiny said

Amanda Perry said on Thursday, Mar 18 at 10:15 PM

If the Gill-Montague school system is so far ahead of the legislation being passed through congress then why was Destiny suffering at this school for so long? Seems like they're doing a little less than they say they are.

Monica Thomas, co-founder Parents Advocating for Safe Schools said on Thursday, Mar 18 at 9:20 PM

I hope and pray that Destiny gets relief from the bullies at her new school. Now maybe Great Falls Middle School will finally see the damage not adhering to a policy they claim to have has caused.

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